uKnow – Tools to Connect and Protect Digital Families

In my search to find the right tools to help us protect our children, I came across uKnow (www.uKnow.com), a parental controls software company based in Virginia. They make several tools to help protect and track your children. I will look into them further in a later blog post, but wanted to inform you quickly about them in case you were close to making a decision on what software to use.

The products are:

    • uKnowKids claims to be the world’s first Parental Intelligence system (according to their website). In a nutshell, it provides Mobile Monitoring, Social Monitoring (Facebook, Instagram and Twitter), Locator tools and “Parental Intelligence”, which provides you with analysis and insight into what is really going on with your child. There is a way
    • uKnowID helps families manage their digital footprint across the Internet and provides actionable steps to protect their privacy and control their safety.I was unable to find a way to get more information about this product however, so I am not sure if this product is available or not.
    • uKnowFamily lets digital families locate one another and stay connected while on the go. However, as of this writing it looks like this product is not released yet but you can sign up to be notified when it is.

More to come as I learn about these products…

Where Do Kids Hide Pictures on Cell Phones?

This is directly from Detective Rich Wistocki, Naperville Police Department.

PARENT ALERT !!!!

Ok parents, here is another new threat to our young children. To tell you the truth, we have had three cases of this in one week. This involved 6-8th graders. In your child’s cell phone we are finding they are hiding sexted images of themselves and others so parents and teachers cannot see them when looking in the camera roll of the cell phone. It is an app that will hide photos and videos. It may look like a safe or a calculator requiring a numerical code. Check you child’s cell phone applications and look for an icon like this. Remember saying to yourself that “My kid would never” is setting yourself up for a huge let down. Better you find it than we find it.

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What is….Snapchat?

Snapchat is a photo messaging application. Using the app, users can take photos (called a snap), record videos, add text and drawings, and send them to a controlled list of recipients. Users set a time limit for how long recipients can view their photos, up to 10 seconds, after which it will be deleted from the recipient”s device and the company’s servers.

How popular is it? Well, it is relatively new and started as a class project for Evan Spiegel at Stanford in April 2011. According to Forbes, Snapchat is used 30 million times a day and growing by leaps and bounds daily.

Seems simple enough, right? How bad can this be? The photo actually disappears before anybody else can do anything with it. Kids, and adults too, are having tons of fun with this hot and trendy application. Don’t be too comfortable with this logic. Here are some risks to consider:

  • Sexting – Snapchat creates a strong sense of perceived safety for users as photos are deleted after the time limit. Teenagers feel much ‘safer’ sending photos via this app. As a result of this comfort, teenagers are becoming much bolder in what they are willing to send, including, you guessed it, photos of themselves that are inappropriate.
  • Privacy – Although the app notifies senders if a screenshot is taken of their sent photo, founder Evan Spiegel says the app is not for privacy. Snapchat’s privacy policy says it can’t guarantee photos won’t still be available in some form after the set time has elapsed. Teenagers do not read nor care about this fine print.
  • Bullying – Similar to the sexting logic, Snapchat makes bullying much easier and safer because there is far less chance of being caught bullying another person. The ‘evidence’ of the bullying is disappearing. Again, this will allow behavior to get much bolder and riskier.
  • Does it really disappear – As with most things, if you give people enough time, they will find a way around the intended use of the app. In this case, people or ‘hacks’ will find a way to retain those fleeting photos. There have been at least 3 loopholes or new apps created which would allow recipients to save Snapchat images for keeps. These loopholes have been discovered and step by step instructions can easily be found on the internet.

At the end of the day, this is a fun app for kids and adults too. Like all things technical that our kids are using, parents need to understand how they work and what are the risks associated with them. Talk to your kids and help them to understand that Snapchat needs to be used in good judgement and with appropriate behavior. That picture really doesn’t disappear forever! Ask your child, “Are you really ok with this picture out there for all to see?” If the answer is not “Yes” than it should never be sent.

What is that App? Keeping Up With Your Children

Do you feel like you have no idea what your children are doing on their smartphones? When I carpool a group middle schoolers, I find that I cannot follow the ‘app speak’ language that they are using. Are they tweeting, snapping, chatting, following, etc? Just when I figure out what app they are talking about and constantly using, it has become yesterday’s news. Does this this sound familiar? Well, if it does, find comfort in the fact that you are in the same boat as most of us.

I will be posting blogs that provide you with a quick description of some of the more popular apps that our children are using. I will outline some of the risks associated with it and also some safety precautions that you can use to help protect your children.

Stay tuned for an introduction to SnapChat.

Why Internet Safety is Important

I am officially waving the white flag. I surrender. I have finally come to the realization that I cannot keep up with my children’s online activities AND work, do the laundry, get dinner ready, oversee homework, etc. The breadth as well as the depth of online dangers are simply too great for one person to police without help. And, I am not just talking about internet predators, but also cyberbullying, sexting, and the misuse of social media.

A quick search finds some staggering statistics:

  • Cyber Bullying – About half of young people have experienced some form of cyber bullying, and 10 to 20 percent experience it regularly. And only about 1 in 10 children tells a parent if they have been a victim. *Source
  • Sexting – 39% of all teenagers have either sent or posted sexually suggestive messages and 20% have sent or posted nude or semi-nude pictures or videos of themselves. *Source
  • Internet Predators – One in five teenagers who regularly log on to the Internet say they have received an unwanted sexual solicitation via the Web. *Source
  • While these statistics are based on surveys and may not be 100% accurate, it is still apparent that these dangers are real and we need to pay attention to them. I’m hoping that through Cyber Safety Consulting and my blog, I can help keep our children safe.